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Introduction:

“Here in the Real World” is one of Alan Jackson’s breakthrough hits, released in January 1990 as the second single from his debut album Here in the Real World. Written by Jackson and Mark Irwin, the song poignantly contrasts the idealized outcomes in movies with the often harsher realities of life. The lyrics explore themes of disappointment and unfulfilled expectations, resonating with listeners who understand that “the boy don’t always get the girl” in real life.

The song reached No. 3 on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart and even topped the charts in Canada, solidifying Jackson’s place in the country music scene. Its success was a major milestone in his career, helping establish him as one of the leading voices in ’90s country music. Jackson’s simple yet emotionally evocative delivery made “Here in the Real World” a standout, leading to its inclusion on his later Greatest Hits Collection albums.

The track was praised for its authenticity and relatability, marking a sharp contrast to the more polished, pop-leaning country hits of the time. The music video, directed by Jim May, enhanced the song’s nostalgic tone by featuring Jackson’s performance and a nod to the classic cowboy culture with a snippet of Gene Autry’s “Back in the Saddle Again.”

The song’s influence extended beyond Jackson’s own career, being covered by legends such as Glen Campbell, George Jones, and Charley Pride. It remains one of Jackson’s signature hits, showcasing his ability to capture the struggles of ordinary life with a heartfelt, traditional country sound​.

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Lyrics:

“Here In The Real World”

Cowboys don’t cry, and heroes don’t die
Good always wins, again and again
And love is a sweet dream, that always comes true
Oh if life were like the movies, I’d never be blueBut here in the real world, it’s not that easy at all
‘Cause when hearts get broken, it’s real tears that fall
And darlin’ it’s sad but true, but the one thing I’ve learned from you
Is how the boy don’t always get the girl, here in the real world

I gave you my love, but that wasn’t enough
To hold your heart, when times got rough
And tonight on that silver screen, it’ll end like it should
Two lovers will make it through, like I hoped we would

But here in the real world, it’s not that easy at all
‘Cause when hearts get broken, it’s real tears that fall
And darlin’ it’s sad but true, but the one thing I’ve learned from you
Is how the boy don’t always get the girl, here in the real world